Is it Balanitis, am I diabetic or herpes or something. Else...

So I’m not sure what is going on. But a few weeks ago, I was having sex as normal and my girl went to the bathroom to pee then wiped. When she got back we continued but it felt really dry and she insisted that we keep going. I went it but hurt myself trying. That night I took a shower with bar soap as normal and washed my penis over and over with the soap.

A few days later, I was taking a shower and pulled back my foreskin and daw some sore kinda looking on my penis head and on the forskin exactly where I got hurt from putting it in. I just thought that it might just be healing up from sex that night so no big deal. There was no pain of iching or anything of that nature but some sores.  

And those sores stayed for weeks.  I looked it up and thought it might’ve just been Balanitis. But regardless I went to the doctor. When she told me to let it out so she can see it, after a few moments she said yes that Herpes. And I said there’s no way. Absolutely no way. She went on to say by her experience it is Herpes but then again she could be wrong. I was like what do you mean you could be wrong. You’re the doctor. She went on to get some pee and swabbed the area.

Today I went to the docs office to see whats going on because it’s already seven days. They said that they got the readily for everything else which was negative but haven’t gotten the one for the Herpes. I’m just lost and in shock. Like could it have been Balanitis, an I diabetic or is it Herpes... I’m so lost right now I need help. I’m scared 

Just wait for the results 

Post pic if you still have lesions