I have been seeing this male since early may. Not too long ago I went to the doctor to get birth control started up, - and take care of what I thought was an UTI, got a call the next day, I tested positive for chylmdia I was freaking out because I thought he was going to leave me. BUT when I told him he was so supportive, and said maybe he had given it to me, and told me that it was okay. I got treatment the next day which is a week of no sex after taking your pills. 5 days in and he ended up pressuring me into some sexual stuff... it was super weird he knew I was uncomfortable, and continued anyway.. it almost felt like he was excited to get me reinfected at that point I felt really low. we ended up just sleeping together again. He still hadn't gone to the doctor. and I am now experiencing symptoms, the last time we had sex I had so much pain. I haven't seen him yet but his behavior has taken a weird turn and I'm pretty upset about it.. He said he left work early Friday and went to a walk in . he said hes clean.. is that even possible? if I have it and we have unprotected sex almost every time.. and now hes trying to talk me out of going to get checked out again (texts included..) advice..
You can refuse he advances. If he insists whack him in the balls then dump him. If he can’t respect your wishes then he doesn’t deserve you.
if anything ask him for the paper work.. but even walk ins you have to wait for results. not worth putting your health at risk for anybody .. your body is your temple .. hope everything works out
hey lisent , he is through it on you .. , YOU know yourself if you never had sex beside him , it’s wierd that he did not get annyoing and ask you if u had sex with others .. so he know it’s him probably he cheat on you and can’t admit it and he don’t want to tell you about it, that does not mean he don’t love you if he cheated on you , maybe he is regretting it , it happened to me but i told my gf and she was upsset yes but then she accepted it cause i appologized to her ..
so just tell him that you will still love him if he did that mistake and he will say the truth …