Is this herpes?

I had unprotected sex with a guy back in December of 2019. We had sex maybe 4 times from December to January. During our last encounter, we did anal and he happened to go from butt to vagina a few times. Since then I’ve had a terrible itch down there. It doesn’t itch in my vagina but rather on my labia and in between the folds. I would aggressively itch for the first month or so. I thought it was due to hair growing back. However, I finally did some looking - it it extremely swollen, red and has bumps.

to be honest this doesn’t resemble a classic herpes outbreak. could be some sort of irritation or infection causing you to itch and have red spots. i don’t see bumps. red spots look flat. is that the only area irritated?

also does it burn when you urinate?

I agree it doesnt look like a herpes outbreak. You might have a bacterial infection and might need antibiotocs. If you have access to a local health clinic i would go there asap.

There’s also bumps and itches further down the labia and in the folds

No I’ve no burning or discomfort when I pee or wipe. There’s also been no burning whatsoever since this started - just a really bad itch

*I’ve had no burning or discomfort when I pee or wipe

I made an appointment today. I did aggressively itch when the it first started. I noticed irritation and assumed it was because I itched. I finally did some investigating and noticed bumps. I’m prone to UTIs and yeast infections. And I’ve recently switched to a new laundry detergent