Hi Jenny, thank you so much for your message, you've been on an awful journey and to remain as positive is wonderful and I admire your determination to keep 'upbeat'.
Since my original question I have had an appointment with an orthopedic consultant who recommended physiotherapy. This has helped tremendously as it was discovered that I had a significant tilt towards my surgery side. Whether from pain or the need to protect it has obviously caused more pain as I now have to exercise to correct this.
I am very driven to ensure I make a full recovery and so the physiotherapist signed me off last week after only 4 sessions as she was confident I will continue the exercises at home. In the meantime I started to wean myself off the painkillers as, having never taken tablets prior to my illness I didn't want to become dependant. The pain has definitely eased since physio started but is still there daily and I can of course feel it more without pain relief.
I will be 2 years post surgery in March and see only my family GP, who is marvellous. The hospital consultant signed me off after 12 months and my 12 month scan was missed as a result, thankfully my GP picked this up.
I was originally told I'd have 6 monthly ct scans for 2 years and thereafter for 5 more. Since being discharged I haven't had any although I was sent for an mri by my GP because of the back pain last year.
I saw my GP this morning to discuss progress as I haven't been for a few months.I have recurrent water infections which he said not to worry about too much. I told him I'd stopped the pain relief and he knows I'm sensible enough to take something if the pain becomes unbearable. Apart from that I have no other appointments unless I go myself. I did ask about scans and he has booked me in for an ultrasound scan and chest xray in June.
When asked, people are generally shocked when I say I don't have regular scans and hospital appointments. Post breast cancer my Mom went for 7 years and I think it's presumed that after cancer you are 'on the radar'.
I must admit I'm not unhappy that I don't have to make more hospital visits however, I suppose there are times I have that small, nagging doubt in my head. This is why I am keen to do everything I can to get rid of my back pain as it is a constant reminder - apart from being painful.
Like you I had no symptoms before kidney cancer and it was a complete shocker when I was rushed into hospital and told I had a tumor. I wrote about my experience and continued to blog after the event.
My only struggle is that between acknowleding I've had cancer and ignoring it - if that makes sense. If I could, I'd pretend it never happened and not mention it again but the continuing pain is like a finger poking me to remind me. Because of that I have to acknowledge that prevention is better than cure so will continue to do all I can to live a healthy and positive life.
Thanks again for your message, you are a real inspiration.
Debbie
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