Hiya I'm 26 year old male and I have urine incontinence due to imbalanced hormones I'm just finding it very difficult to keep a relationship due to having to wear incontinence pants and I also do sometimes leak abit from the other end (sorry if that was horrible ) I'm just wondering how people manage with this condition and due to my age I feel like I'm too young to be wearing pants if you could help I'd be greatful
Querido James,
Lamento mucho que estés pasando por esto a tan temprana edad. La vida no es justa. Temo no poder ofrecerte ningún consejo práctico. Tengo 64 años, colitis ulcerosa y acabo de ser diagnosticado con diabetes tipo 2, por lo que debo tomar metformina, lo que, junto con la colitis ulcerosa y sus medicamentos, puede provocar ataques repentinos de, digamos, "aflojamiento". Tengo problemas de próstata y vejiga que pueden causar algunos problemas, así que puedo simpatizar plenamente con tu angustia por "fugas" por ambos extremos, por así decirlo. Es realmente miserable. Afortunadamente, no estoy en ninguna relación, pero si lo estuviera y esto nos causara a mí y a mi pareja alguna angustia adicional, creo que estaría en la puerta de mi médico de cabecera o de mi consultor para pedir ayuda. Los pantalones para incontinencia no son agradables y, como dices, no son un producto que sientas que deberías necesitar o tener que usar a tu edad. Te envío mis más sinceros deseos de una rápida mejora en tu angustiosa condición. Con los más cordiales saludos, Peter A.
You say you have a hormone inbalance, have you had a karotype blood test.
I have a hormone inbalance if I don't get my testosterone injections. My testosterone level is 34, so I get testosterone cypionate, every 3 weeks. I am also a xxy male, which means I have 47 chromosomes and Klinefelters Syndrome.
I also leak urine. I have had this problem since I was in my 20's and I am in my 60's, now.
Have you gone to the doctor to fund out why you are leaking both ways.
A cystoscopy which a scope is put into your penis to see if you have any strictures in your penis.
Bowel leakage is a problem only had when I was diagnosed with C-Diff. (clostridium difficile. colitis.) at a rehab/nursing home setting. I had to wear adult diapers to prevent me from messing up the bed. Adult diapers are uncomfortable and hot to wear but necessary, when that occurred.
Habe you gone to a doctor to find out the cause of your problems.
From this forum, I have heard from other young men who also have this problem and yes relationships can be a hard when you have both these problems.
One older man stated his wife knew he had this problem when they married, but somehow they worked it out until recently when his leakage got worse.
I leak when I am string in a chair, walking or sleeping.
I have heard that kegel exercises could help with urine leakage. But someone told me to buy a penis clamp. There are other medical devices that can help for OAB overactive bladder, which can be found on the internet.
It is in your best interest is to find a urologist that may be able to find a cure for your urine leakage, but for your other problem maybe the urologist can recommend someone in the medical field.
I am not a doctor
Good luck in your quest to finding a cure
I forgot to mention one thing. I assume you are heterosexual and only like sex with women.
However, if you were gay, your problem wouldn't matter among the adult baby or diaper fetishist crowd.
On the internet, they would gladly welcome you because you have things they would want to experience with you. Then there are the so called gay "pigs".
Many gay men are into a lot of bizarre sexual.practices. Are they safe, I have no idea.
I am not into that kind of behavior, or sexual role playing.
But I thought I would mention it since most people don't know anything about the gay world.
I have seen so many things in the gay world which would shock the average male or female.
As I said before, ask a doctor about your symptoms.Maybe they can help you stop them. Good luck
Try using a small amount of estriol cream on the urethra. The estrogen cream strengthens the muscle and keeps the skin from thinning. I'm 67 and began having bladder issues last year, quite normal for my age, but I learned from a book by a physician that the cream stays localized and there is no worry about it affecting the whole body. It's quite safe to use and has worked well for me. I now only use it once a week and have no problems with leakage now. Best of luck to you!
Estriol creams are easy to find at the health food store.