Hi Laura
I know what your're going through although I drew the line at Humira myself because of all the possible side effects.
I've had a lot of flare-ups lately due to the PIP farce. It has been particularly bad over this last year but in October I finally won my award. It has been very stressful and I haven't been sticking to my own special diet. Needless to say I ended up in hospital a couple of times.
Now that's behind me I can concentrate on my diet better. About 2 years ago I had a really bad flare, hospital borderline, and decided to try whole natural foods which meant cutting out grains, fat and sugar, especially in the form of chocolates, etc! (Comfort eating foods).
Because I was bleeding and everything, In the morning I had a banana and spinach smoothie - you can add anything you like so long as you avoid anything with pips. For lunch potato and carrot soup made with veg or chicken stock, and over the following week or so I added more vegs one at a time: cauliflour, broccoli, spinach and onion, pretty much in that order. I know a lot of people say that if they ate that they would end up in hospital. Well, I was almost there anyway so I thought what they hey, nothing to lose!
But it worked, my bowels movements slowly firmed up and the bleeding stopped, I started feeling a lot better. I progressed from that to having steamed vegs with chicken or salmon, then eventually onto stews in the slow cooker for my meal at night. I can even eat some chocolate, oven chips, etc but it's a case of not overdoing it.
I am on steroids and have been for about 15 years now, mostly low doses unless I am flaring badly then I have to put them up. If it hadn't been for the last year's stress I reckon I could have got off them by now with this diet. I am determined to get better but I'm having to start again after making a mess of things at Xmas!
So in short, whole foods seems to be the answer for me. Give it some thought and see how you go.
Whatever you decide I wish you all the best, I know how hard this is.
Pat x