Menopause & Post Menopause Phase .. useful info..

The Menopause And Postmenopause Phase

After you reach menopause (periods have stopped for 12 months) things start to calm down a bit. Hormone levels settle at a lower level, mood swings stabilize and hot flashes subside. Your body begins to accept its new level of estrogen production, although a small percentage of women continue to suffer menopausal symptoms for another few years. In the longer term, consistent lower levels of estrogen cause some new physical changes to your body. These include:

Menopause Symptoms

Vaginal dryness: Medically called vaginal atrophy, low levels of estrogen can cause the vaginal tissue to shrink and dry out. It is most noticeable when sexual intercourse becomes painful without lubrication. Vaginal dryness is the most common cause of painful intercourse in women.

Vulva itchiness: The skin of the vulva dries and can become itchy. However always ask a doctor to check any changes in your vulva, as there are many other causes. See reproductive system disorders.

Urinary incontinence: The muscles and tissues in the urinary tract become weaker, so you might have leakages of urine when you laugh or sneeze. 

Urinary frequency: The need to urinate more often than you used to.

Weight changes: Body fat shifts to the center of your body, away from the arms and legs to settle in the waist. This means you take on a more apple body shape appearance. This doesn't necessarily mean you gain weight, but a larger tummy may mean you still need to go up a dress size. See weight gain and menopause.

Low libido: Decreased sex drive is a common problem in menopause and it can usually be traced back to testosterone levels being too low. See low libido in menopause.

Depression: If you have been taking estrogen replacement therapy (ERT) to cope with the side effects of menopause (rather than going through the natural weaning process), you may find you are suddenly hit with a wall of depression when you quit. 

Extra Problems

Estrogen is a miraculous hormone (as no doubt you are beginning to notice) - as well as all the wonderful functions it controls in our body, it also acts as a protector. It helps protect against bone disease (osteoporosis), heart disease and a host of other medical conditions. Once we hit menopause, we are no longer protected in the same way, which is why the risk of heart attacks, coronary heart disease and osteoporosis suddenly increase. For this reason, regular health screenings become even more important, as well as taking regular exercise, maintaining a healthy body weight and eating a balanced diet. 

How Long Will It Take For Me To Feel Normal Again?

From start (when you first notice obvious menopause symptoms) to finish (when you don’t notice them anymore) the process can take anywhere between 1 and 15 years. But before you have a heart attack - statistically research shows that it usually lasts on average 4 years.

Typically symptoms tend to peak one year after the woman's last menstrual period but continue for up to 4 years in 50 percent of women. But who knows - you may be one of the lucky ones that sails through with only the odd hot flash to contend with.

I reckon I'm more than unlucky with menopause then after eleven years of it and still going. I wish I'd been one of those who only get four years of this everlasting misery!!! Best years of your life not so far.... 

But in the plus side I've discovered valerian gives a good nights sleep ladies and you don't keep waking with hot flushes I only take one at night and so far I sleep which is fab 

hi Liz

feel for you 😢

i was 10 years .. Only just post menopause 

think me and you out the same pod 😢

jay xx

Hi jay it's such fun all this I reckon we are out of the same pod. Thanks for all the info it really helps xx 

Hugs to you Jay for posting this. Thanks to you and this site, I find more peace of mind going through the roller coaster ride than going to my GYN at this point. This post especially helps to remind me, I am not losing my mind and this really is temporary, no matter that it's already been 9 yrs of interesting perimenopausal symptoms!

Bless your heart Dear!

Annie xx

Hi annie

Lovely to hear from you . 

Hope its going okay hun.. 

Thanks for the kind words

Jay x

Hi Jay this was interesting. I was only thinking about this today. My issues have all seemed to get much worse this yr and especially the last few months. I havnt had a period now for 4 months so really think this must be related. I so hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel.xx

Hi mooma

For me my final year of no periods seemed to be the most anxious time, felt tearful, doom, needy, antisocial, no energy or drive.

My last period was sept 13 and the following 6 months were my worst, i was so emotional worst every 6 weeks like a pattern it was .. Thats when i took B6 ( April 14) and all seemed to start lifting again 

Big hugs hun.. 

Jay x 

Hi Mooma,

I have to agree with you, the longer I am going (again) without a period the worse I seem to be getting (again).  Had my last normal period Sept last year, Oct to April this year was horrific, just about every symptom listed and not to mention the dreaded anxiety.  May and July this year had a little spotting when my period would have been due and I started to come good, still had little symptoms that came and went but managable and worked really hard on the anxiety side.  So now have just passed 3 months of no period or spotting and for the last 2 months everything seems to have come back and hit me again, maybe not as bad as previously but I am also not as anxious about my health this time round.  Heres hoping that we are closer to the light at the end of the tunnel..xx

Thanks Jo, this has given me hope that things may ease a little in the new year😉. I have terrible problems with jaw pain which the specialist says is caused by stress and anxiety. Never had it before. I've had headaches and dizziness on and off for about 8 yrs, as the time progressed they beacame worse and more frequent along with extreme tiredness, feelings of doom, night sweats and fuzzy head.... The list goes on. It all culminated in vertigo 3 yrs ago and since then facial pain, dizziness, headaches, neck and jaw stiffness. The jaw has become worse this yr and this is when my periods stopped. Will have to see if that is it, hoping they don't start up again. What a trial it all is. But I love it hope that this is the last hurrah and things begin to improve next ur. I do hope so. Thanks for your encouragement ladies. It really helps. I can find no explanation for all this other than hormones. I continue to follow the healthy diet and take the supplements and keep my fingers crossed that one day I'll feel a bit better. Lots of love. Xx

 

Thanks Jay. I continue to take the supplements. Think I'm going to start the magnesium again. Don't feel any better for not taking it. Can I take too much or does the body just get rid of it if I don't need it? Xx

I have been going through menopause for 11 years

I have managed the flushes the dry skin not sleeping etc but I am now struggling with anxiety and feelings of doom and gloom

This I am having trouble dealing with

Anyone help ?

Jay, thank you for the post. I seems I am here now. You explained it beautifully. My body is adjusting to my new hormone levels. Will someone tell my mind to accept it. Hit 51 in November, and my last cycle was Oct. I am like now what. Bladder issues, the hot flashes are gone after most of the month of November. After being sick for three months; lost 22 lbs in 3 weeks, I believe it was menapose related. They ran every test and found nothing. I guess it is official now. 

 

Sandy, jaw pain too. I never made the connection that was also related. I've had bouts with the vertigo and dizziness.