Hi Blueplum,
No worries, happy to share. It does feel like there is little help out there from the medical profession, I feel that too. I feel as though we're given steroid creams and told "well, that's all we have". It's frustrating, but thankfully we have this forum and there are a lot of experienced, knowledgable and helpful folk on here, so at least we're not alone.
I think my atrophy started before I noticed it. I was diagosed with LS in November last year after a horrific bout of thrush. I hadn't examined myself for many months, so I wasn't aware of changes, but I noticed my outer labia looked a bit wrinkly, that was about 4 months ago. I look every day now to apply a cream and I've started seeing my inner labia start to melt away as well now. It's been very quick, within months of diagnosis. I wonder if the ointment actually progresses the atrophy, although I'm sure the doctors would say the opposite is true.
I don't think anyone really knows how to deal properly with this disease. The medications help to deal with the symptoms, not the underlying cause.
Do you have any other autoimmune issues. I am borderline hypothyroid. I've been that way for a long time, my GP says it's only a matter of time before I need medication for my thyroid. I've done enough reading and research (from research papers, which I trust) to convince myself that going gluten-free is a good beginning. But it is very hard because I'm also vegan. And I'm reduced refined sugar, so I've had to learn about new foods and experiment.
I'm still eating gluten, but I've reduced it by 50% and so far, I'm not seeing any changes, but the LS isn't getting worse either.
What kind of healer did you see?
With these restrictive diets, you have to really work hard to find new foods. I've found quinoa (yet to try it), reintroduced lentils and found pea pasta. If you spend a bit of time investigating you will find there is still plenty to eat. I take algal oil to make sure I get some omega 3s, this is very important for helping inflammation.
I think if your dermo isn't even examining you, it might be worth trying to find someone else, that's kind of shocking. LS needs to be monitored carefully.
Hope that was helpful. 