Need help , scared I might have herpes

im a young man . i had oral anal sex(mouth to anus) with 2 women about a week apart . i few days after i notice a itch and slight pain when i wipe myself . i look and its red/pinkish spot by my anus. it itches a little , its tender when i wipe or touch it often . when i I Clinch i can feel it not really painful just very Discomforting. i talk to both of my partners and they had no signs of anything . No bumps or cold sores of any kind around there mouth . now im worried and have no clue if i have herpes. can anybody take a look and tell me what you think this could be . Does it look like herpes ?

if it’s herpes it can sit doormat for years and they would could never have any symptoms it’s best you call go get tested and also that doesn’t look like herpes it looks like irritation… it could be from anything new soap wiping too hard …