Hi, I was diagnosed with Lichen Schlerosis a few months ago after suffering a year of pain and unbearable itching. Before finally getting to see a gynaecologist, I was given lots of different creams for thrush. I've had to take several courses of antibiotics for various infections (bladder, tooth etc.) so I did test positive for thrush a few times. At other time, the results came back negative leaving me very emotional and frustrated. So when I saw the gynaecologist, he described the skin as "melting."
He said it was very early onset Lichen Schlerosus and was seemed very triumphant in finding the diagnosis. I was initially relieved. He told me to stop having baths, never use soap or let any products (shampoo etc.) drip down my body in the shower. He said to wash my hair over the bath rather than in it, and wash under my arms with soap over a sink. He said if the symptoms don't clear up, go the my doctor and ask for Lotriderm which is a steroid cream.
I was still uncomfortable weeks after, so I did get the cream. For a while, following his advice, I did feel an improvement. However, I've now had another bladder infection so another course of antibiotics. The infection has cleared up, my doctor did another urine tests after the antibiotics to be sure, but I still have itching.
I feel very scared and lonely, with a condition no one can see but me. I don't know if I'm allowed to go swimming - which I love - or ever have a bath (even just plain water) again. I also do not know if the itching is a the start of a bladder infection, thrush or the lichen schlerosus as it tends to move places.
My husband wants a baby soon, I'm 28 and feeling the pressure of missing the chance to have one. But the thought of intercourse is frightening, not only because of the pain but because of the possibility of another bladder infection which I seem to be prone to getting, which starts the cycle of infection - antibiotics - thrush off again.
I'm also feeling distressed at what I've read online. Neither the gynaecologist or any of the doctors I've seen have mentioned fusing. I don't seem to have this yet, but the thought of it alone is absolutely awful. I am scared of what is lying ahead of me. The doctors I see are not very sympathetic either.
The gynaecologist also said he won't need to see me again, but I feel that if this condition is only one that can be managed and not cured, surely a yearly visit would be appropriate to make sure it hasn't got any worse?
Other than the Lotriderm and copious amounts of thrush treatment I use whenever I seem to get really bad, I use plain natural yoghurt sometimes to help with the itching. I don't know how to avoid the bladder infections either, as no matter what I try to avoid they seem to happen anyway and I'm increasingly miserable and paranoid. I feel like I spend all my time thinking about these conditions, and feeling isolated and embarrassed and completely defeated.
Can anyone recommend what I can do to try and get some sort of control back over my life?