Hi Marianne,
I am now 17 days on from having my right ovary and 11cm cyst removed, and feel so much better for it, as cyst had recurred from previous one I had drained in December. I had a laparotomy, due to cyst size, an had about 8cm bikini line incision, with belly button keyhole insert also. Apart from the normal tenderness and a little discomfort, which you would expect, I experienced no pain whatsoever.
i had 14 clips in, all now removed, so no stooping, lifting or driving for last few weeks, will see what next week brings. At 55, this was my first experience of any surgery and so did feel little more fatigued and so just rested let my body heal, with short gentle walks now, get fresh air in my lungs again.
Future fertility was was not an issue for me, but having only one ovary removed means I am more gently progressing into menopause, with some night flushes. Overall my experience has been a very positive one, resulting in getting my body back to normal after nursing two large cysts over a nine month period, one after the other.
i hope your surgery, whatever is decided goes as well for you. One thing I did find great was a little plastic kiddie step up, which I used for in and out of the car, when I had to for the first week or so. I did have a catheter and surgical drain in for 24 hours ( both pain free) and was discharged on the third day, was sent home with strong pain meda, which I never took as just few paracetamol was more than adequate.
i did have a little vaginal bleeding, nothing excessive and now 17 days on I get an occasional cramp as my body parts shift back in to position, as we do not realise how much our cysts have moved things around in there until they are removed.
Good LucK with all
Mary