HELP!!!!! I LOSING MY HUSBAND BECAUSE OF PERIMENOPAUSE MOODS SWINGS...... I DONE KNOW WHAT TO DO! !!!!!!!
Hi Susan, have you been to discuss it with your GP? Are you going to contemplate HRT?
The HRT would help
I ought to have said that you should talk to your husband too.
the first step, in my view, would be to have a heart to heart discussion with your partner. understanding each others situation clearly is a key to establishing a strong relationship
I have talked to my husband he says it's all in my head.....
Well, that's a good start because he obviously isn't planning on disappearing! Go and see your GP Susan, good luck.
But he could use his response as his justification to get lost somewhere, even in temporary phases
I've tried he says I'm using it as, a crutch....
He threatens to leave all the time....
Even though it may sound harsh my advice is to let them go if they want to leave. Never settle for less. Once a leaver, always a leaver. Thats my bottom line view.
It's so hard to let go.... I love him more than I've ever loved anyone.....
If he cannot understand that after all the years you two have had together then he's not worth it. Sad, but true.
Our 1 year wedding anniversary is Oct. 6th, guess I'm screwed......
Como hombre, no puede entender las hormonas... quizás le gustaría ir contigo al médico de cabecera y que el doctor le explique qué está ocurriendo dentro de ti. x
¡Caramba... realmente no lo entiende, ¿verdad? 
He keeps threatening to go back to London, he moved here 2 yrs ago and he says I will never find him there.....
Not if you stop looking for him. Does he understand that? What he is doing is spousal abuse which is despicable.
¿Sabes qué? ¡Mejor estás sin él si esa es su actitud! 
No está ayudando en absoluto, en un momento en que realmente podrías necesitar algo de apoyo.
We talked a lot yesterday and he says I should tell him when im going to have a mood swing. I told him I can't even tell when and he said he's went through this 2 other times before and they could tell him. He really is an intelligent but sometimes I wonder if it's all book smarts.....
the bottom line here, as i can see, is his selfishness. he only cares for his needs and not yours. that is unacceptable in any successful relationship.