Questions about Herpes?

Some questions that follow are:

  1. Do herpes lesions and blisters always burst and or leak?
  2. Do herpes usually look the same
  3. Do herpes always hurt and cause pain?
  4. How long can a herpes sore last for?

I have a sore down there that has not bursted, that does not hurt, that is a perfect round bump and is now going down since using topical medication on it, as well as the bump has not opened and or leaked at all. I have been to countless doctors and Gynos and they all say it does not look like herpes. I am gonna go back and ask for a test because for someone reason my anxiety is so bad every single day about it (even when the professionals tell me).

Also I have had this bump for about a month now and is finally going down since using the topical cream religiously

can you upload a pic?