Thank you, Morag and June for your acknowledgement. I don't delight in the fact that you have had situations that relate to mine, but I do know you understand. As far as my disability, I look like the average person so when I park in the disabled I do get looks like I should just get with it and park like all the others. Still, even with a cane, the lack of compassion is definitely obvious. When I was younger and with my children, I always took those situations as a learning opportunity. Of course children look at the disabled with confusion but they stare which is no fault because they are still in the learning stages. I'd tell them to always, always respect the disabled and if you are looking at them and they look back...smile and give a little wave...because more often than not, it wasn't a choice for them to be disabled.
I do feel I did a good job in that area because my oldest is a Hospice Nurse and truly loves her job. She loves it in that she can comfort the people around their love on whom is dying. Plus she helps the family to help their loved one to pass on to give them permission to leave. To me, that would be such a difficult job because it's a person leaving for good. I am so proud of her. My youngest is the sensitive one and shows her emotions on her sleeve. I am proud of what she's become as well.
Ok, enough of my family.
June, the sarcoid on my skin feels like something burning up and down my arms, legs, and left side of my back...like it follows the nerves...I first thought it was shingles but it isn't....my daughter looked at it and told me to just relax. lol Now she's the parent lol Geesh, I just thought of something...it is possible to have sarcoid of the nerves, right?
The doctor's waiting room is known to be full of sick people coughing w/o covering their nose or mouth, others sneezing and they also do so w/o coverage and on and on. I'm just too tired to go to the doctor again. I know it's a place full of cooties <as my daughter would say>. I had two appts last week and came down with, what I believe to be, the flu or bronchitis..either way, the coughing is deep and it hurts. I do feel the doctor's office should have a room where people aren't necessarily ill but need doctor's care especially in need of a separate room are the people with auto immune diseases because they (me) catch everything. I did ask one time and in a look-down degrading tone, the front desk said "well, here, we'll stick you in this room, it's usually set aside for the children with chicken pox or some other communicable disease" so I said "I'm wondering if I ask the doctor when he comes in to see me, I'm guessing he'd have YOU (because I'd suggest you for being such a commpassionate person that all of us agreed is likeable and kind) make a spot for people with a low immune system!"
June thank you for your kindess, I truly appreciate it.
Morag, I want to thank you as well because you get it! I'm guessing all of us are in our elder years...me being 61....sometimes people forget that the elders aren't here to take up vacant space but we are here full of knowledge and wisdom
right? lol Well, I'm off to conquer my quest and that's to train my pup to be a pup to visit the children with cancer or some other disease they are dealing with....Puppies make anyone smile...and she's the cutest.
Take care both of you and thank you again for being here for me.
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Morag, thank you as well 