Hello everyone, this is my first post here after I found the forums online. Apologies in advance for the long post.
I am 52 and have arthritis in my right hip which has got worse and worse over the last 5 or so years. Walking is quite painful (although this varies quite a lot, sometimes it is just a faint pain, other times it can be very uncomfortable to the point where walking is difficult, but most of the time it’s somewhere in between). I now walk with a slight limp.
I had an x-ray and saw an NHS consultant in a London hospital who advised that I will indeed need a hip replacement as the arthritis is quite advanced. However, he told me that since it is not painful when I’m not walking or lying down, then I should use painkillers and try physiotherapy until the pain becomes too much. He added that if I really want to go ahead, he would be happy to do the op. This was 10 months ago and I have worked hard at strengthening the muscles around my hip after seeing two physiotherapists.
However, while this has improved the pain (before physio there were occasions when I actually had to stop in the street due to the pain) it hasn’t changed things as much as I’d hoped. Mornings are particularly stiff and when I walk I still have the slight limp and feel varying levels of pain.
I also feel that the bad hip is impacting upon my general health and quality of life. I have lower back pain which I believe is due to my gait as a result of limping (I know there is no guarantee that this would be fixed after an op, but I suspect it would help). I try hard to get exercise walking but I feel I would be more active if I didn’t suffer with the pain.
So my question is, how bad do things need to be before going for a total hip replacement? Should I hang on a couple more years, minimising the chance of needing a second op in 15 or so years time? Or should I go ahead while I am relatively young? I’ll admit, the operation scares the life out of me (even the idea of sleeping on my back doesn’t sound fun as I’m a real turner in bed!) and the message from the consultant and physio seems to be that ‘this is a serious operation and you shouldn’t do it unless absolutely necessary’.
How did you guys decide whether to go ahead? I hover between wanting to go ahead and thinking maybe it’s not so bad and I should wait. It doesn’t help that there doesn’t seem to be anyone you can talk to in great detail. The doctors are all so busy, you only ever get 10 minutes with them.
Another factor that helps me is that I work in IT, meaning I can work from home during recovery (especially during covid as working from home is becoming the norm). Therefore loss of income is not an issue.
Once again, apologies for the long post, any advice much appreciated.