So scared I could have the virus!

3 weeks ago i had sex unprotected anal and vaginal after 2-3 days i had constant headache for about 2 weeks then my neck and shoulder began to hurt now i feel a little knot in the back of my neck i know its a lmyph node scared i have hiv! i have a dictor appointment friday ugh could I have it?

There is always a possibility for hiv but it is MUCH more likely to just be a common illness. If you are sure it is something you picked up from her, my first thought would be oral herpes, or mono from kissing. Do you know if you already have either of these??? It is common to have these kind of symptoms when you first come in contact!

*her/him

no never had any of these

I'm sure you know of these viruses already because majority of people end up having them by early adulthood. They are not a big issue but some people feel very crappy for weeks after contracting them! Do you have anything else going on too? Like are you sleeping a lot more or appetite change?

no thats it a little tooth pain but idk if thats related but other than that im ok just dont feel like myself!

hiv is difficult yo catch. it doesnt show symptoms in 3 days. RELAX. you are fine

what about ARS doesnt it start days after?