So me and my partner were trying to have sex for many months now.
Every time I was really turned on and wanted to do it. For some reason his P just wouldn't go in. I used lube. He tried his fingers and nothing. I can't even use tampons. I checked and can't tell either I have a hymen with holes and thick so it won't break or wether I have vaginismus. I can put in a small tampon but it slips out once I place it in. I don't think we can break the hymen , it may have to be done surgically. I dont wana go doctors incase it requires surgery.