Hi Kiwifruit, you are wise to get prepared before embarking on a taper. How often would you say you remember the second 37.5 mg per week? You could try just taking the AM only and seeing if you do ok with that. You might be like me. I had my genome sequenced and learned that I have a SNP that prevents a lot of ven from crossing the blood brain barrier. It takes me a couple of days without to start feeling off, though in hind sight I think I'd get cranky the first day.
However, that doesn't mean withdrawal won't hit you eventually! I came off too fast a few years ago, and at first I didn't notice any problems, though I began to have severe sweats and developed really bad concentration, brain fog, memory lapses. I'd also come off the BCP and was of menopause age so blamed these symptoms on that. Six months later, I began to have severe anxiety, insomnia and depression to a degree I'd never experienced before, but since it was such a long time from when I came off, I didn't connect the dots.
By month 10, I was back on Effexor since I had become so despondent and had suicidal ideation. I'd never been like that before in my life! Within one hour of taking that first pill, the clouds parted and the sun shone again! That's a sure sign of addiction/dependency! I knew from then on that it was WD all along and vowed to get off the wicked ven!
So, I've been doing the a slow taper for nearly two years. I was also thrown on Remeron during the worst period before going back on ven because I couldn't eat or sleep, and so I have actually gone slower, averaging 5% per month, because I am also tapering Remeron. It has gone very smoothly, with a few blips of anxiety and low mood when I tapered too aggressively. I am now down to 12 mg of Ven.
However, I was always on the extended release which is easier because the capsules have little beads inside and you reduce by counting beads. Technically, you are to take the immediate release twice a day, as you know, which makes it trickier when you want to taper.
So, if you are missing half or more of your evening doses then you might try seeing if you can just get away with the moring only. You may be a slow metabolizer who clears it out more slowly and then the AM dose holds you to the next day.
It may be possible to get a liquid version of ven when you relocate. Then you can dose with a syringe quite easily. You can also make your own liquid from the immediate release tablets.
If you find that going with only one dose a day becomes problematic, then you may just swtich to the extended release when you move, if available, and then start counting beads if you are able to get the kind with little balls in the capsules. A 10% taper is the safest for the majority of people. This topic includes a link about the 10% taper:
https://patient.info/forums/discuss/depression-resources-298570
Some folks are able to go faster, but given the nature of how the drug occupies receptors, it becomes necessary to really slow down when you get lower in dose, and not jump off from too high a dose. I plan to jump off when I get down to about 1 mg, maybe 1/2 mg!
If you take your time and go very slowly, it allows your nervous system to adapt back to life without the drug rather smoothly so nothing to fear!