first of all I send you a big hug as I know how hard it is going through something like this. I am currently awaiting diagnosis for herpes myself. A few questions
- Does it hurt at all?
- has any fluid come out of the sores?
- Do you have swollen lymph nodes in your groin area?
thank you for replying I'm freaking out... ok it foes fell sore yes but no fluid from bumps and no swollen lymph nodes i dont believe no burning when i pee ... but is sore feeling . its on the left side of the opening of ny private and a lil bit on that side of my but cheek.
my hubby has none .. ive not slept with anyone but him idk if he has cheated our relationship is bad but he swears he hasnt
Such a difficult situation. Personally I would go and get these looked at and swabbed just to see if it is herpes or not. There are many possibilities here. I cannot say for sure but he may have cheated and given this to you (if it even is herpes) which can't be ruled out yet. Another possibility is that funnily enough 80% of people with herpes don't even know they have it as they never show symptoms or are too mild to notice. It's very possible that either yourself or him has been carrying this prior to your relationship and it has only made an appearance at this point. At the end of the day it all comes down to your trust within him but until you know it's herpes for certain or not no blame can be placed at this point in my opinion. Keep me posted I will be in touch.
all I can do is wait til tomorrow morning and call my gyno to get tested and go from there... i have some ointment left over from a prescription from when my lil one had a bad diaper rash i mixed that and antibiotic cream together gonna put that on after shower ... hopefully i can get to doctor ASAP... im so stressed and worried...
i dont really trust him at all... i shaved three days ago and we had sex afterwards then yesterday is when i noticed these bumps... our marriage is awful but we still have sex sometimes 😟😑😿
Wait and see what happens. I hope for your sake you can work through this. Keep strong. I am handing in my swab sample tomorrow as well and I'm going through a very similar situation we are in this boat together.
yes thank you for the advice and kind words... I'm trying to stay calm and not think about the worse... i always work up the worst senerio in my head ... it will all be ok .. im calling to get a appointment first thing in AM ..i hope everything works out for you and if you ever need to talk your more than welcome to message me 😊
Thank you also. I'm pretty sure I have it now as this is the second time a sore has come up I'm just waiting for confirmation now. Let me know how your appointment goes
i just called and got an appointment its not til Thursday. the bumps seem to be better today...
glad to hear your symptoms are improving. I should know my result by Thursday at the latest but tbh I'm 99% certain it is herpes now. Devastated is an understatement 😔
i understand... im almost sure mine is to .... I've been stressing over it big time but trying not to if it is it is.... from everything ive read and researched about herpes its manageable and can keep breakouts to minimum , some things ive read say you can go years without a break out and still have a normal sex life im not sure how accurate some of the things ive read are ...still a difficult thing to face... the way im thinking could be much worse.. ive had a headache all day that has been killing me. i hope the best for you and hope your results turn out good .. if not dont get down about . gonna try to get some sleep if this headache will let me ... let me know how your test goes.
I've also read all the literature there is about it and while I agree it's manageable, I don't think I'll ever have a normal sex life after. Despite the amount of education, There is still a huge stigma attached to it and disclosure to most people in my opinion would put them off in fear of catching it themselves which I can understand. The reason I'm damn sure I have it is I've had the swollen lymph nodes in my groin and also flu like symptoms since:(. I hope the same for you and will keep you updated I should have my result hopefully within the next day or two.
yes you are right about that there is a huge stigma , i do agree with that either way my hubby says wont change our relationship, i think he should go get the blood test as well, he says never had any bumps but could have it without break out ... have you have blisters that busted ? some of mine had busted some point yesterday so now im positive it is that.
my sores kind of have this clear fluid coming out of them (typical with herpes) I haven't actually noticed anything until this stage really.
if it makes either of u feel better i have hsv1 on my mouth, had it since i was a child had no idea what it was until i was in middle school and had a horrible breakout snd my sweet older sister said " u know u have herpes?" broke my heart but she was right i did/do , i didnt get it sexually it was given to me in some form as a baby or kid "sharing a drink or someone kissing me as a baby" shitty right? i can say im still ashamed when i get a break out but ive never had a problem with guys still wanting to date me maybe bc they dont see it as herpes " but it is its herpes, it sucks that there is a stigma on genital herpes in reality 90% of americans will test positive for herpes.. think of it as a rash that comes at random every now and then. my biggest fear is spreading it to my genitals.. having to deal with rashes in two areas would suck.. heres what works for me taking zinc daily , and u can get pills from ur doctor , camphophinic for cold sores literally gets rid of my sores in 1-2 days!
It could be herpes but i doubt it, if they go away in a few days it should of just been from shaving. Its two days later any updates?
they are still there but the blisters have idk i guess busted ... and now today i noticed a cold sore on lip is it common to get a cold sore during a outbreak
my appointment isn't til Thursday