Loss of sexual urges

please help. ive been going through a real bad time with my anxiety and depression since my wife left me 7 months ago. ive been seeing a wonderful woman for a couple of months now but i can not get an erection, its like i dont feel anything . im attracted to her and she says shes not bothered by it but i am. has anyone else had this kind of issue ?

The same problem here my fellow man...:-(

Many SSRI anxiety meds can cause impotence, also anxiety itself. It is not permanent and normal function will return in time.

i really hope you are right, the whole thing is making my depression worse :(

Are you taking an SSRI?

yes i take venleflaxine 150mg am and 150mg pm as well as respiridone and lorazepam