redness and bump so scared.. help

so i have noticed that i have redness all around my glans in the bottom it goes away sometimes and sometimes its very noticeable i have been so paranoid the past 2 weeks and checking on it every minute and whenever i can. because it goes away after washing my penis then becomes more red other times. yesterday i was touching it a lot just trying to see if i feel anything as i does not itch or burn right after doing that that bump that is also red appeared. i feel so scared did i spread it more by touching. I'm unable to go to a doctor so im seeking any help here to comfort myself. Id like to add that i feel a little discomfort seems to be coming from the tube in the inside it is not noticeable unless i think about it and its sometimes more noticeable after peeing it goes away completely when putting pressure on the penis such as sleeping on it or touching it.

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looks worst on the picture but it does highlight everything now at this time it is completely normal even that bump but if i keep it out in my hand for a minute or two it will start getting red and so does that pump too that bump doesn't feel too hard it is soft squichy and not painful at all

this looks like a mild case of candida, it can be caused lack of washing or washing with soap etc, just was every night with warm water (gently rub the head for 10 seconds to clean it) and then dry it of, should go away, worst case…get a thrush cream.

i did wash it with soap that is kind of strong before i will try what you said and see the changes thank you so much for the reply