tears after sex?

i had unprotected sex 4 days ago. and 5 hours i had unprotected sex again with someone else. im nore so worried that the person from 4 days ago gave me herpes. i have these tears and idk if it’s herpes or tears from the sex. i have dry skin and he went very very rough. the fan was on so my lubrication dried up and it started hurting a little. i have bv and i have a yeast infection. not sure if its gone away by now. does this look like herpes ? there are a couple tears, diferent shapes. i only noticed it when i peed. it slightly stung but thats it.

note: i meant the sex i had 5 hours ago was rough and dry.

the only way to know is to get a test all the above things u mentioned can cause tears cuts yeast/bv/lack of lubrication can all cause it plus herpes u should have them swabbed for a definate answer even a doctor cant say for sure by looking a test needs to be done

I have read that yeast infections can cause that sort of irritation. If you're concerned, see your doctor for clarification.

doesnt look like herpes and given your story orobably just tears in skin. but youll get herpes or worse soon if you keep having unprotected sex with multiple peepl... your health is not to play around with.

you're totally right. i definitely shouldn't do it anymore

update guys: after two days the cuts seem to have healed. i read that anyone who had something similar with herpes that the tears would get worse and ulcerate. but when i touch it, i dont feel any stinging and i dont even see them anymore. is it safe to say they were from sex after all?

plz read my update above and tell me what you think

er actually its down below lol

i will get tested soon. but can you please read my update below and tell me what you think?

i also read that yeast infections can make vp get inflamed. can you read my update below and tell me what you think.

id wait see if they reoccur and in which case see a doctor to be sure it was probably due to dry sex

i'd say 99.9% yes youre safe so see it as a chance!

thank you lots kim!

thank you sam!

for anyone following the discussion wondering, i tested negative for hsv 2 (i already had oral hsv 1). and all other stds THANK GOD! im very lucky to have not caught anything from both partners and will definitely not play with my life like that EVER again lol. the tears really were from sex after all and the discharge was due to bv. thanks for your help and advice

great news!

lol i know right?

happy for u at least u can stop worrying about it an move on just he weary of th bv mediation if u was given metronidiazole /flaygl it can cause yeast after finishing the course so keep an eye out for chunky discharge

thank you kim <3! But yes I was prescribed flagyl but I read horrible reviews from people who've used it, saying it had horrible side effects. i wonder if theres anything else i can take ?