Hi, I'm 14 years of age and I have a bad history when it comes to anxiety. I worry about the smallest of things even with reassurance. When I get an erection, I get a soft, painless, colourless, half-circle lump under the skin about half way down the right side of my penis. There are usually up to 4 of them at one time spread out. I've looked everywhere and I can't find anything about them. Just by feeling I can't tell there's something there unless I look. I don't want to tell my parents or go to the doctors as I'm a very shy person.
Bro I'm 20 and I'm seriously annoyed with myself that I took so long to get checked out, I went a couple days ago and it's not awkward as they see many people. Yours will still grow at 14 just don't be like me and wait. Maybe ask for a male doctor or a different doctor for it to help but seriously there's nothing wrong with getting checked up
Hey bud, this doesn't seem like anything to be w9rried about. You are still growing and your skin is still developing. If there's pain or irritation message me
Hi, first of all what tangki did not say is that he is training to be a urologist, a specialist in all kinds of issues related to the genitals - so, you can be really assured by what he is telling you. The other issues you mention in your post, I am a specialist in. That is, being a very shy person, and VERY anxious. These are quite difficult issues to deal with in themselves. BUT, you are at the ideal age to start undoing what you have learned about yourself, and your place in the world. Remember, you ARE just as important as everyone else, and have just as much right to be heard along with those who quite easily speak-up and speak out (the opposite to what you are now ). Do internet searches on how young adults can overcome shyness, fear and anxiety. Believe me, it is better that you are doing something about these issues now, than when you are 50 or 60 years of age, when you are too old to change.
Put different things in place that you currently do not experience. Groups with a common / shared interest are really good for this, such as sports or outdoor activities. Do NOT learn to do things on your own - you must mix with other people, and the more people you meet, in safe, shared locations, the better this will be for you. PLEASE be aware, it is only YOU that can take the lead on this. Share you thoughts and feelings with family members or others that you can really trust. Never let anyone take a lend of you, just so they themselves can benefit from what YOU do for THEM. Think about it, do some internet searches, and if you want, update this discussion, or PM me if you wish .....