I had partial thyroidectomy when i was in teens, I didn't get fat till I was 40 nor was I on any meds, I wasnt depressed I probably didnt have as much energy as most of my friends but I still enjoyed that part after the op...
I was a not big at all it was only when i started taking Levothyroxine because I had become Hypothyroid which was what the professor had predicted but I didnt know what Hypo was then as Internet wasnt about then >
...., I think my hair suffered a bit as never grew, I was unable to have kids to which I am now told I was probably Hypo and because I was skinny they didnt really take much notice. anyway, I think at times I may have struggled more than i think.. I sort of wished now I had just taken meds to not become hyperthyroid, but at that age I had opted to have OP 40 seemed like years decades away and thought i would be dead by then tbh lol I didnt want to be on meds every day. so partial ?sub Thyroidectomy seemed the better option at the time , the scar was quite raw for few years then you forget about it, probably smaller these days
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If I was you tbh I would get a 2nd opinion or even 3rd by a surgeon as they dont all think the same ....
on if you really need a sub part or full thyroidectomy and check how many thyroidectomy your surgeon has done in the past as , if he hasn't done many I personally wouldn't of trusted them..ask if he has ever lost a patient doing one, all these things you need to know , not scaring you as it has happened and especially onto so experienced surgeons ..
I had a Professor who was an excellent surgeon do mine, but he never warned me about how bad Hypothyroid would be in my latter part of life or I think I would of not had it done..
just do your research on surgeons and if you have it all out you will be on Levothyroxine for your rest of your life, a prt thyroidectomy if surgeon isn't experienced could well make you hypo with it 1st time and you could be on Meds all your life,
,, take your time, read lots ask lots of people what they have done how they felt, would they do it given the choice again ? , ( as you have)
, the op itself hurts a little but not for long, I felt bad for about 2 years after mine, they said all bloods were normal but we all take different times to heal... all I say is research research and more research, different opinions just dont take one Surgeons advice unless you know he's ace at his job...
Good luck keep us informed to what you do or do not do
take care ...