Do I have herpes? Pictures included. Any advice

Sexual health
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so I had 2 partnes who I had unprotected with , one from 7 months ago and one currently. I only had anal sex with the 1st guy and notice some breakouts around my upper thigh near my vagina. after a month. i got tested and my results came back negative. I talked with his baby mama about any stds and she said he has herpes and laughed. after I told her I was negative, she said she was joking just to piss me off. I confronted the guy and he immediately looked at me disgusted after I said u have herpes. he seemed shocked and surprised.
he said he didnt.
SYMPTOMS**** white bumps between my upper thighs. no discharge or pain or flu like symptoms , no bumps inside vagina or anal

now Im with this new guy and we had sex, afterwards he was saying he was feeling sick, and itchy down there, no bumps. my heart shattered because i told him I was negative and now I’m rethinking everything. we had unprotected sex once but now Im going crazy cus the thought of giving someone herpes is sickening and mind blowing. i got this sore sore bump today I just need advice.

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That resembles a Herpe sore. What testing method did you use to determine that you were negative?

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igg test. but now I think it was early. I wrote this 10 days ago. and it’s still the same. I recently shaved and afterwards I got the cuts. didn’t turn into ucler or anything. just Staying the same.

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two weeks now . first was like that now and then I scratched them and now this yesterday.

today

i think I likely have it but just how long when it turn into ulcers and start to ooze and heal? how long it stays a sore? and does all herpes scab?? I’m trying to really understand these symptoms that never occurred rn so confused.

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that does not look like herpes at all

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I reccomend retesting in 3 months to be sure. Please refrain from sex until completely healed and use protection. Best of luck to you.