Swollen lymph glands

Ok so basically I suffer with anxiety and a few months ago I convinced my self that I had hiv I've been with my partner 2 years and accused him of giving it me I went and got tested and my results were negative I couldn't appolagise enough then I had a different symptom and the fear came back so I tested again also negative now I have swollen lymph nodes under my arm pit and I've convinced my self again that his give me hiv he says he don't have anything and this anxiety is killing me am I just being partanoid are swollen lymph nodes under the armpit a symptom of somthing other than hiv I'm desperate to go and get tested again and it's ruining my life please anyone got any advice 

If I had swollen nodes under my arm or any where the last thing I would be worried about is HIV. You need to go to the doctor and tell them about it. You could have cancer. It needs to be checked out, but stop worrying about HIV. Your partner may get upset and leave you. Please get it checked out. It may just be that you have swollen sweat glands, that can happen and it has happened to me before, due to the anti pursperant deodorant that one uses can block the glands. Get it checked out.

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