I'm going insane here,
I met up with another male for anonymous sex. The only thing involved was receptive anal sex but with a female sex toy that was shared between us. There was about 20 seconds or so inbetween use. He was also a bit rough with it so there is a small tear/anal fissure, we stopped after that. There wasn't any blood present either.
Am I at risk for HIV at all? He told me he's on PREP but I'm still anxious.
You cannot trust people now in days. you really should of worn a condom because yes your at risk. Every time you have unprotected sex your at risk. But let me tell you. I was engaged to a guy who i thought i would be with forever. So even after he confessed cheating on me with a man and sharing needles I took him back didnt care if i got.anything because i loved him. He was the father to my baby. But things turned to the worst figured out he was still a liar and a cheater. We broke up. He got a gf in a week after plus still tried to have sex with me. I refused. But i had also had sex with a guy i randomly met(this happened before i got back with my baby daddy). Didnt even ask him his status maybe because he was straight and i was ignorant i thought only gay people got hiv until i read articles about it and no. I also had sex with another guy but made him use a condom(also before i got with my baby daddy)but i never been the kind to have sex with random guys i just did it because of stupidity. I would never do it again ever . I felt stupid after all that but only blamed my ex because of ignorance(because the stigma of hiv). After we broke up i started waking up in night sweats. I got rashes all over my body and awful migraines. I had to wait 3.months to get tested my anxiety was off the roof. I had some bloodwork done and one of my blood test was low. Like not a lot it was standard for the most part but the hospital had its own range and it was like .01 low and it made the test abnormal. I got scared looked it up it said that gets low if your body is trying to fight an infection. Especially found low in people with hiv. That was enough to scare me. I had already tested for chlamydia, herpes,gonnorhea, hepatitis all negative. But i waited another month out of fear. I had callled a cheap lil clinic and they didnt have anything available until this year and even then my working schedule wouldnt allow me to get tested and i was to.embarrassed to ask the day off to get an hiv test. So i found another lab it was expensive like 89 for a test. Like i thought they were cheap-.- cuz the other lab was a full panel for 20. anyways.. She hands me a paper where i had to sign if i tested positive she had to report me to the state. As i signed i feared the worst. Already heard her calling me back saying ma'am your test came out positive. I wished i wasnt as dumb to not use protection with my ex because the guy he had sex with would have sex for money plus did needles with everyone. He also was older (8years). I thought it was the end for me. But test came out negative! The chances of you getting hiv from a one time encounter is 1 in 10000. The odds are in your favor. Anal i think its like 1 out of 990 but even so its like most likely nothing. If he is really on prep then good maybe you should get on prep as well if you decide to keep having sex with random guys it will protect you. It would give me a peace of mind. You need to wait at least 3 months to test
But i wouldnt worry too much because in The end you might you might worry for no reason. I just thought my story would provide relief
But i think the test i got she told me it would tell you 2 weeks after exposure. Idk if it has a certain name but it was supposedly one of the more accurate ones